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Pornography as Global Psyops

Following on from this post and the one it mentions , you need to consider some rather disturbing conclusions one necessarily comes to if math (statistics of coincidence) logic and empirical observation of the world around us is anything to go by.

There is also this rather long and initially almost surreal post by AC that is however worth reading in full, that by the end of it, he has gathered enough evidence for it to make it more than a little credible.

The previous posts mentioned above are considered required reading, and especially so if this next image makes you uncomfortable to accept at face value.

Now ask yourself, given their supposedly low numbers on the planet, can you think of any other ethnicity on Earth that has ever had this level of involvement with pornography?

Lebanese? Japanese? Italians? Really, think about it.

Then consider who created the absurd system of fiat money debt-based currency the entire planet operates on and is created out of literal thin air by those who control it, but that you and I have to slave over to earn.

And who runs most of the planet’s mainstream mass media, film and television programmes.

And now two final questions:

Do you still really think this is all a coincidence, my unbridled racist antisemitism for no reason at all, and just one totally absurd conspiracy theory?

Or maybe, just maybe, do you now agree that actually, yes, it really is the Jews?

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

Subscriptions Unpaused

As I was not clear on what I was receiving via this substack from stripe, I had paused all paid subscriptions.

That has now been cleared up, so your paid subscriptions will re-activate now. I also want to thank all of the paid subscribers for your generous support. Honestly, THANK YOU.

It is the sincerest form of appreciation a writer can receive and I am very grateful. Especially since all my posts (so far) are public and free access, which means the people who subscribe are the kind of honest and genuine people I like the most in life.

I will continue to post both here and at the OG blog, but since the situation has now cleared up, I will probably do both even during the holiday period, though I will probably favour the OG blog a little due to the ease of use of posting from my ancient phone, which I can’t do with substack until I have a more up to date one, and given what iPhones cost, especially the iPhone 14 variants with double PHYSICAL Sim (only available in China and Hong Kong and one other place I think) It may be another decade before I catch up to the futuristic app world of substack.

I wish you all a very happy holiday period and a great 2025.

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

Holiday Time Posts will be at the Kurgan Blog

For the next couple of weeks, I will be posting only at the OG Blog.

Link is up there on the menu at the top, or click here:

https://www.thekurganblog.com

The reason is that I can post there from my ten year old phone, while I can’t even read some free substacks even from my 2019 Apple Mac desktop, because they require newer versions of the OS.

So enjoy the return from the “dead” of the previously hacked blog, now risen again, like the namesake immortal others named me as.

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

Serious Things

The OG Blog is back up , stronger, more immortal than before and with a new focus.

This blog here will be used to post the general things I ponder from time to time, but the OG blog is where I always did my better, unfettered, and deeper thinking, and if there is anyone that read me since I first started blogging in the early 2000s to now will tell you, my views on a bunch of things have evolved too. And now, after the state attack on my blog, I have taken yet another evolutionary step. The OG blog will concentrate a lot more on SOLUTIONS to the dystopic crap we are all being subjected to.

My whole life has essentially been one long path to trying to increase my own personal freedom. I have done more things than most men, travelled more than is necessary, met and lived in very different cultures and worked in various environments and in different languages. I am 55 years old and have moved home 54 times to date.

But wild as I was in my younger days, after all that, I no longer need as much freedom as I drove for my entire life since childhood. Don’t get me wrong, I still want it, as badly as ever, in fact, I want it more , if that’s even possible. But I am old enough now to know the difference between want and need. So, for myself, I don’t need it as much as I used to. But…

I have children. Five so far and a sixth one on the way. And for them, I want and need that freedom almost more than I need oxygen to breathe.

The want has nothing to do with anything other than the need . And by freedom I mean unfettered, wild, ability to live like in the Wild West of films. Not the actual Wild West (which was not as wild as some films, more wild than others, and pretty grim all round). I want my children to be able to roam the land freely with a sixgun on their hip and a rifle in their saddle (or helical, or whatever), able to deal directly and honestly with other direct and honest men and women, and free to tar and feather any Ponzi-scheming bankers and scammers that try and return things to how they are now, if not string them up to the nearest tree free from chemtrails and MGO manipulation. After a short but fair trial of course.

So these are the things I will discuss in more detail and with practical examples at the OG Blog.

And today’s post is a good one in that respect because it is one that hopefully helps rip off the veil of general lies from your face at a level that means a lot of the other veils go too. And can’t come back.

I also have redone the pinned post , please read it. Aside ways to support me, which I know many of you may not be able to do, struggling with your own lives as you might be, there is also a rather extensive list of series of things I have written, gathered for you for ease of consumption. Consider the pinned post to be the essential reading you have to have in your head already more or less, to be able to benefit the most from subsequent articles I will write on various topics.

And remember, the impetus there (and here) is on SOLUTIONS. Not just bitching about the current thing/situation/asshole politician/whatever.

I will blog at the new and improved Kurgan Blog, more often than I do here, so you may want to bookmark it and go to it daily, as I do try to post at least once every day and sometimes several times, but Substack I can only access from the desktop, because I have an old phone, so the blogging here will be secondary but still different than at the Kurgan Blog. Read both.

And yeah, in case it wasn’t already obvious, reading, even reading a lot, is an essential life skill for the coming future, so if you are allergic to it, you may want to strengthen your reading ability, your ability to focus for at least a few minutes at a time instead of the constant distraction that they have trained all of us to be used to thanks to “smart phones”.

Anyway, I hope to see you there, and that you will help spread the word as my OG Blog and the topics I talk about irritate a lot of the people that would prefer you to remain dumb cattle, as the latest hack demonstrated quite clearly, so the only way that blog spreads is through word of mouth and you sharing the links at the end of each post. So even if you can’t support me in a more material way, if you enjoy or find some of the stuff d o interesting, please share the posts. Thank you.

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

The Wife

As I have written before, my wife is a rather unusual creature , and she would have to be in order to fit with me. And while we occasionally drive each other to distraction in both the negative as well as the positive, we do seem to have a somewhat dark sense of humour that is quite capable of occasionally being self-effacing in the interest of getting a smile. Even if normally it’s mostly zings at each other.

Although she does enjoy nauseatingly bad puns too, so like I say, it’s always an edge of the razor balance between light and darkness with us.

Still… this meme she sent did make me laugh.

So when she gets back in…

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

OG Blog update and commenters update too

So the old hacked blog has resurrected, as we immortals tend to do, and is much improved and also at a new address and with much improved security. The link to it is at the top there where it says OG Kurgan Blog.

The posts that appear there are different from the ones that appear here, and there is far more in-depth analysis of important stuff there, and in the next couple of days a few more updates will be done. Mainly tot he pinned post, that will include all the important topics in one place for ease of reference to those that don’t want to trawl through 15 years of posts.

You will also see links to my books up there on the navigation bar of this post here on Substack, so please go there to see the around 20 titles of books I have produced over the years. And note that not all digital books are on Amazon (Caveman Theory) and not all books on Amazon are available in digital format (The Face on Mars, Systema), so go see both.

Also, my policy concerning people who comment , both at the OG blog and here, remains unchanged, so please take note before you let your foolish finger type something that seems really smart and clever only to you and no one else.

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

On WWIII, the Drones, Syria, Etcetera

As I have been busy, as mentioned in the new and improved Kurgan Blog , which like my namesake has now risen from the dead, you might think the reason I have avoided writing on the supposed UFO/Atom Bomb search/Alien invasion issue in populated areas all over the USA, might be due to that. As you might think, is my total ignoring the whole Syria collapse and predation by Israel. Or Gaza, or Cocaine Clown’s Alleged Country, the Ukraine, or Belarus putting Russian nukes on its borders and telling everyone about it. Or South Korea becoming a little bit like North Korea now, and so on.

Well, I have been busy. A LOT. But no, it’s not that.

It’s a combination of WWIII (and general alarmism) fatigue , and bullshit overload fatigue .

I’m sure you feel it too.

The factual reality is that more and more of us sane people are caring less and less about what MIGHT be happening over “there” and increasingly also not giving a crap at all about what new draconian rules and “laws” they are trying to impose on us over here, because we have no intention of following anything that does not align with justice, common sense and logic.

I was speaking to one of the guys who helped me collect my olive harvest and his situation mirrors my own, he spent 2 years getting his newly bought house liable, has 2 year old twins, no money to speak of, but he survives just barely and makes all his own food (I have not achieved this yet). He encapsulated his life (and mine) perfectly:

“We are crazy Giuseppe,” he said “we are choosing the hard way of our ancestors, to avoid the madness of the modern world.”

I concurred except I corrected him: “We are not the crazy ones, Alex, everyone else is.”

And if you are on the East coast of the USA, I would be getting my arse and my loved ones out of there to go visit any family in rural buttock-nowhere crossroads in the vast middle of nowhere, and if you don’t know anyone there, pick a spot on a map with cheap motels and tell your kids it’s a vacation. It may be all bullshit, as it so often is, but the Clowns of Clown World need something bigger than 9/11 was to manufacture enough “outrage” however artificially inflated, in order to manipulate the USA into doing whatever other Israeli war their puppet masters command.

And apparently the giant drone flap is to find missing radioactive material (though they also appear to be spraying chemtrails all over the place). And no, it’s not aliens.

The point is, always the same one:

Get rural, get as self-sufficient as you can. Build communities of people that think like you and are absolutely invested in being good members of your community.

And never forget what Lysander Spooner taught everyone many, many years ago:

Government is nothing more than the violent people who have no other skill other than doing violence unto others, getting organised, and enforcing their monopoly on the use of violence to obtain whatever they want. And above them are the purse-string pullers, who are far worse, being as close to a pedophile vampire as anything resembling humans can get.

So, readers, unless you see the explosions from your front-porch or hear the crackling of gunfire from your bedroom, I suggest you absolutely let go thinking about any of this nonsense and focus on setting up your Christmas tree if you can afford one, or making one if you can’t, decorating it, and putting your children’s and each other’s gifts under it. And let the rest of the world go to Hell in a hand basket without your attention, participation or anxiety about it linked to it.

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

And One More Reason I think Luigi is being Set up

Apparently, Luigi Mangione wrote this document ten years ago when he must have been a teenager.

It’s worth the read .

But even if you don’t read it, the jist of the document is that Catholicism overtook Paganism because the Catholic religion appealed to the poor, downtrodden and lower classes. After all, Catholicism is the ONLY religion on Earth that stated that all men are equal in God’s eyes and all equally subject to his laws and divine Will.

JUSTICE is a main concept in Catholicism and it applies to all human beings equally. The king has no more favour in justice than the homeless man. And while human beings in the fallen world do not often live this way, it is absolutely an admirable concept and one that Catholics generally try to follow.

Now, such an ideology also promotes community, camaraderie and helping each other.

Imagine the terror in the “elite’s” faces at the idea of millions of normal people, all united by a common belief in justice rising up against their rules, laws, thuggish enforcers, and so on.

Now add to it the absolute absence of fear of death that Catholics that are ACTAUL Catholics enjoy and you have an undefeatable army of irregulars that under the concept of Just War, are going to immediately start trying to remove you from your Imperial throne from which you try to destroy and control the lives of greater humanity.

It is the reason why Sedevacantists (the ONLY Catholics left, and hence the only ACTUAL Christians, since all other “denominations” are merely a corruption of the truth) are the most vilified, cancelled and attempted to be criminalised of all the religious beliefs on Earth today. And that is even though we are essentially peaceful, law-abiding and only a very small percentage of the world’s population.

Luigi explained how and why such a tiny population became the longest lasting and most powerful empire that humanity hasten known, and how it civilised planet Earth to a degree unmatched since.

You can’t be having this sort of idea spreading like wildfire all over the place and having spontaneous communities of Catholics helping each other and gaining traction now, can you?

What would Klaus Schwab say?!

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

Find the Positive

We are at a human threshold. A cusp from which certainly Hell on Earth wants to be unleashed by all the major “players” of this Earthly domain. Wars everywhere, and worse, the constant oppression of normal people by rules, laws, taxes, and regulations ever more draconian and absurd.

We all know the nefarious intent of our supposed masters. At least everyone who is not literally asleep in their zombified “vaccinated”, nanobot-infused, chem-trail affected, long-covid brain-fogged state of discombobulation is.

That, we hope, is you and me both, reader.

It is easy under such an apparently pervasive cloud of darkness to lose heart.

In fact, that is their aim. That is literally the point.

Depressed and demoralised people do not fight back. they surrender. They go along with. They get on the cattle trains.

But a LOT of this negative stuff is mostly in your head. Yes there are nanobots. yes they want to kill you with “vaccines” and yes even the actual vaccines turn out to be murderous and at the very least sterilising in intent. Yes there are chem-trails, and yes they are trying to insert the mRNA crap in all the food. And the “food” is now often just 3d printed rubber.

Yeah. I’m not saying it’s easy or good or happy-times. But the thing is, you need to become like the Spartans in the film adaptation of the graphic novel 300.

The Spartans are hiding behind their shields as a rain of thousands of arrows is being rained down on them and one of them begins to laugh. When asked why he replies, well, you had to say it: “We’re fighting in the shade.” And all the other Spartans start laughing too.

Think of me as that first guy.

Yeah, it’s bad.

You know what is worse:

Giving up.

Feeling defeated.

Letting the bastards see you getting tired, weak, etcetera.

Now, I happen to think Luigi Mangione is probably innocent and being completely set up, as I posted earlier today, but the narrative of his logic is correct.

And the ONLY way we change things is by:

  1. Having a mental and spiritual attitude that is undefeated regardless of actual conditions on the ground. I have been a fighter all my life, and I have never had a weak or defeatist mindset even as a child, and yet… NOTHING has made me as resilient as understanding what Catholicism really is, where is the only Catholicism left, and then formally becoming a real Catholic by being baptised by one of the remaining actual Catholic Priests left, that is, a Sedevacantist priest, because the only actual Catholics left are the ones that still follow the infallible magisterium of the Church as it always was before the heresies and usurpation of the Vatican II Freemasons/Satanists that started on 28th October 1958. You may have your own ideas or religion or ideologies, but honestly, none of them compare and the proof is in the communities these people build. The only slight exception might be the Amish, but they reject violence even in self-defence, so they will not be a tenable structure in due course.
  2. Forming a COHESIVE community (this generally requires they have the same mindset as you in the fundamentals, i.e. the same religion, nationality and culture you have, by and large) in the real world, in the flesh that therefore, manages to provide self-sufficiency in the following things:
    1. Food security (real food and enough of it for everyone in the community)
    2. Water security (water free of whatever crap they plan to put in it or are already doing)
    3. As much as possible the lack of need to rely on FIAT money at all
    4. Energy security (production of your own electric and fuel energy for the community)
    5. Finally but ultimately most importantly: Physical security, which means the number of men and arms, necessary to defend your community from foreign invaders, be they government thugs or more generic thugs. Like it or not, agree with it or not, the only actual “rights” you have on this Earth are the ones that you have sufficient force to be able to hold on to.
  3. Taking part in local politics and infiltrate, subvert and take over as many branches of local or even regional government as you can.
  4. Reproduce and educate your children properly, to build a future inhabited by self-motivated, capable and coherent human beings.

You may think this is impossible or a pipe dream, but I remind you that one man and his family, after an altercation with a police officer, went back on his large farm and never left it again, and his numerous family prevented any law enforcement from ever trying to go and “get him” because it would have resulted in a shoot-out. That’s just one large family.

Same sort of thing happened with the Bundy Standoff. A bunch of random armed Cowboys drove off the actual Federal Government. Yes, Ruby Ridge and Waco happened, and maybe somewhere will happen again, but the government thugs that look forward to shooting unarmed mothers with their bay on the breast, like the cowardly scum “sniper” Lon Horiuchi , who I believe has rightfully been in hiding for years, are starting to realise that you can only push people so far before they respond in kind.

As a general rule, the type of person attracted to “law enforcement” is, broadly speaking, someone that was too incompetent to become a criminal without the stamp of government approval.

Yes exceptions exist and are real and decent human beings trying to fight a completely corrupt system where the cops only do what they are told and follow orders. After all, the price of being part of the gang is that you do as the boss says, no matter how unjust, absurd, or evil the orders are.

The reality is that as we can see in Syria currently, and Ukraine and Gaza too, and in every war that preceded these, the final arbiter of a conflict is the actual infantry. The boots on the ground, so to speak. Which is why the American military, supposedly the most powerful fighting force on the planet, was ultimately sent back home with its tail between its legs by both rice farmers —armed with shovels to dig tunnels and sharp sticks— in Vietnam; goat herders armed with ancient and unreliable weapons in Afghanistan; and currently, running away with their aircraft carriers from a bunch of sand-people armed with a few drones.

The point is that short of massive and concentrated military might that includes massive artillery and swarms of drones, as well as huge numbers of infantry, even a small force can cause so much damage to a larger enemy that it becomes impractical to fight them.

10 men properly armed and trained and willing can be a formidable force against 100 men in a regular army. Consider that the 10 men are fighting for their family and their lives. The 100 soldiers are there because they got orders to be there. This is how grandfathers and civilians held off the Ukrainian murder-mill in the Donbas from 2014 to 2022. For eight years it was irregular civilians that fought off the constant shelling and barrage by the Ukrainians.

So… first EDUCATE yourself (but not even too much) on all that is possible. It is FAR more than you imagine.

Secondly, ignore anything that tells you that “you can’t.” If I had not done that I would not have published some 20 books to my name, had five children, and a sixth one on the way, changed career, country, continent and lifestyle as much as I did and always made it work somehow, and done many, many other things. Is it hard? Sure. Sometimes it’s brutal. But ask me if it’s worth it. ABSOLUTELY. Always.

And besides, what else you got to do?

So, no matter your situation, start. Or support the Kurganate and join us.

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

Logic and Morale for Women

Despite my being regularly accused by my detractors of being some kind of chauvinist pig, the reality is quite different, and there is a very large topic here that connects Protestantism, binary and puritanical thinking, and the actual degradation of women in mostly Anglo-Saxon societies and the eventual disintegration of the nuclear family thanks to marxism, communism, and feminism, primarily and first of all in the Protestant zeitgeist of the zionist ruled USA and from there, exported like a noxious cloud of poison around the world that pits women against men and men against women.

It is why I have been as critical of “Pick Up Artists” (PUAs); Men’s Rights Activists (MRAs); Bitter Incels (Men Going Their Own Way – MGTOW); and basically all the whiny excuses for men that populated this accursed Earth lately, as I have of the gold-digging whores without a shred of logic, humanity, or maternal instincts within them.

Is the situation bad? Sure.

Is it a mass extinction event level of bad? No. (Assuming the scum poisoning our food supply, the air we breathe and irradiating us with microwaves 24/7 don’t wipe us out with their technologies).

But is it bad? Yes it is.

So what’s the solution?

The solution is what I have been saying should happen since I was about age 16; and that is: Women need to learn to become more logical.

Men —through mostly nefarious means, it must be said— have certainly evolved to be more empathetic, considerate, and objectively kinder than they were a couple of millennia ago (broadly speaking and confining ourselves to European cultures for the most part, but also the far orient, like Japan for example, and parts of Russia and say Kazakhstan).

The down side is that the promulgation of quasi-gay, metrosexual pathetic excuses for men has exploded. The up-side is that those men still possessed of their own testicles, decent testosterone, and a functioning brain, have (mostly) learnt to navigate the modern world without killing everyone that pisses them off right away (and while this is admirable, any man that becomes fully devoid of the capacity for violence when called for, we can safely assume is now a neutered domestic animal and of no further consequence for anyone in the world. They effectively have relegated themselves to NPC status.)

Admirable as it is for a “modern man” so to speak, to not cave in the skull of anyone that upsets him as soon as they do, we must keep in mind a couple of things. Such a man we may say has become the space-faring kind that novels of the 1950s, or written by Edgar Rice Burroughs, would imagine. He’s erudite, efficient, smart, empathetic, but quite capable of shooting laser holes through evil men and ghastly aliens as his forebears were of lopping heads off of marauding Muslims.

Such a man, cannot, and will not, put up with the emotionally incontinent females of the modern world, who feel all is owed to them and nothing is ever their fault. Nor will he put up with “binary, queer, gay” anything. Those people are deviants and that is all there is to it. As long as they stay in their corner and don’t make waves and carry on their perversions behind their closed doors in mutual deviant consent, no one cares. But the minute you try and foster your deviance and/or mental illness on the rest of the world, you get shoved back in the closet. Hard. Just as you would anyone that had a penchant for say sexually gratifying themselves with garden gnome statues in public.

As a result, the women of today, most of whom have bought into at least SOME aspects of woke ideology and lies, will tend to judge such a man as some level of “toxic”; because you now accept it as “normal” that little boys should sit quietly for 6 hours a day being told mostly lies, have trannies shake their near naked genitals in front of them at age 5, and that a man that bitchslaps someone for doing that in the vicinity of a child should go to jail.

Or that fighting deadly attacks on you and yours with deadly force is now considered “wrong”.

You see, the issue is not that men are “toxic”. The issue is that men are very much needed and the very foundation of civilisation. No civilisation was ever created by a matriarchal society. It never will be either, because guess what: There are only two sexes, male and female (the word “gender” relates to linguistics and has nothing to do with human or animal sexuality. It is a perversion of the language, a tactic the Satanists love to use and have done throughout the ages; so stop saying “gender” when you mean sex. Say sex.) And each sex has attributes, abilities and duties, unique to them. Women’s task is to literally create the human beings that will populate and make the civilisations, but it is not their task to make the actual civilisation. That is men’s task. And while there will always be exceptions in vast numbers of anything, it doesn’t change the generalities or the rule.

Women, at least the ones worth keeping, just like men, at least the ones worth keeping, both need to become space-faring heroes and heroines of the 1950s type of pulp fiction.

So, while women will always be more emotional and less prone to using logic and reason to maintain their morale, they still need to evolve a lot in this respect. Just as men have evolved from “fixing” every problem with a club/sword/gun, at least until it really is the only way left.

It is, of course, our duty as men to try and help the women in our life to think more logically, to try and keep their emotions in check (though nowhere near as much as men should, after all, female emotions are also what makes them interesting and entertaining, if taken the right way).

It is a dark world of dystopian things right now, and women especially are going to be prone to being depressed, feeling helpless, unable to keep their children and themselves safe from the depredations of the genetically reconstructed mutants, fake food, oppressive regulations and taxation, lack of finances, and on and on, that we are all being subjected to.

As a man, it is your job to fix these things, but also to not be henpecked or brought down by the woman in your life being in a permanent state of depressed negativity.

It is normal for a woman to seek safety, and very little in the world today feels safe. Everything from our food, water, and air we breathe, is being intentionally polluted. Rules and laws are popping up all over to try and hem us in even further and make living impossible, and raising many children a myth. Of course women are despairing. And even if they are generally positive, the number of decent men able to actually provide and create some semblance of security for them is vanishingly small.

Nevertheless, a woman that is able to maintain a positive outlook and be willing to support an effective and efficient man that cares about her, makes all the difference. The emotional, spiritual and real-world effectiveness of a man that is cheered on by his woman far outstrips the sum of the parts, and conversely, one that has to constantly drag his woman’s emotional response upwards, while also trying to improve conditions, is only going to at best produce 25% of the effects he is trying to achieve.

It is, of course, human nature that we are all flawed, so a woman will tend to be prone to henpecking, complaining, and constantly going on about what is “missing” from her life, instead of praising, being appreciative and grateful, and being overall genuinely happy and positive for what she does have, and retaining an outlook of hopeful positivity. Not in a deluded fashion, but rather in a “yes it’s us against the world, but we are going to win, no matter the odds” kind of way.

Of course, today it’s quite difficult to even find a man with that attitude, and a woman should definitely seek to pair herself as much as possible only with a man that has such an attitude. Again, not in a deluded fashion, but rather, because it is obviously good to pair up with the type of man that really does overcome overwhelming odds, even if it takes time, effort and hard work for prolonged periods of time.

An example from my life might be illustrative.

Without wanting to out anyone or put their personal lives on display, I am aware of a man that had an extreme set of challenges over the last decade, and he’d started out with some severe childhood trauma too.

He married and had one child and his wife got so sick she nearly died, and has life-long complications. He was working well over 15 hour days, and drinking a bit too much too. His way to cope with some childhood stuff, and they lived in a very small apartment. They argued, they fought, they even temporarily split up before her illness. But he came back to her when she got ill and looked after her and continued his brutal work schedule, inching his way up a corporate ladder that didn’t actually exist for him. He angled and waited and pushed just at the right time and outperformed everyone else until he got to a position where finally he was being paid wages that made it possible to look after his little family even if not grow it bigger. And in the last week he got a mortgage and bought a fantastic place that has absolutely revolutionised his family life. His wife and child lived in that cramped little apartment uncomplainingly for over a decade. But he never relented at his duties, and finally his persistence paid off. And his wife and child are genuinely appreciative of it now. Even so, one wonders, if during the difficult times his wife could have been more supportive or positive. That said, it would be unfair to criticise her, because he too had his flaws (as we all do). What can be said is that they both persevered —even when things were absolutely difficult— to choose each other. Consciously. Repeatedly.

And it is that loyalty, consideration, and conscious choosing of your husband or wife —for life— that makes the difference.

Once you go through the tempests of life together, the concept of the grass being greener on the other side will fade. And eventually, you may even finally see the world as it is: Filled with delusions, illusions, and lies, and the only thing that is really real, is your dedication to those you love. Everything else is details. And life may be hard every day of your life, but if you spend it in service of loved ones, it’s not so hard even when it is hard.

So… ladies… it is true you need to pick the right man, but it doesn’t have to do with his height, his riches, or his fame. It has to do with his spine, his heart and his willingness to battle dragons. It was always thus and it remains so; they just have made it very much harder to see it nowadays, but don’t be fooled.

And men… be men. Anything less is a disgrace.

For further reading on the concept of relationships based on mutual support and co-operation, instead of the current zeitgeist of competition and adversariality, you may want to read Caveman Theory

This post was originally published on my Substack. Link here

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