More women than I thought (that are unmarried apparently) read this blog.
So ladies, here are some general pointers. Just like I tell the men to become as presentable as possible, do the same.
*Wear clothes that highlight your best features.
*Wear SOME make-up (do not trowel the stuff on, it’s off putting).
*Don’t be a disgusting lard-ass. Stay healthy and fit.
*Personal hygiene is NEVER optional, and especially so for a woman.
*Unless you suffer from some disfiguring malformation, as a general rule, do NOT get any plastic surgery/botox/lip-filler, etc. Yes, we CAN see it. YES we DO KNOW, and no it’s not enticing. In fact, in almost all cases, it’s very off-putting.
*Learn interesting stuff. It doesn’t even really matter what, but a woman with a SKILL is unusual and makes a man pay attention. I dated for a time, quite seriously, a woman that was an underwear model, had been a model in general, then quit because she didn’t like the environment and she had no driver’s licence, so got around on a scooter, which only required a reduced licence. But she had a valid pilot’s licence. Now, I never needed her to fly a plane, but the idea of her being the pilot on some smuggling adventure in a Tales of the Gold Monkey style fashion, lived permanently in my head the whole time I was with her. All we would have needed was a small plane that could land on water, and a broom-handle Mauser pistol. If you have to ask why the Mauser, you will never understand. And if you have not seen that one off series, trust me, it’s absolutely worth it, get the set and binge on it. But I digress. The point is a woman that CAN change a tire, or use a spreadsheet, or, like my wife, has preternatural ability to find/buy the weirdest gadget I didn’t even imagine might exist, that turns out to be useful, and so on, is a bonus point. More so if it’s actually useful. BUT… DO NOT OVERSELL IT. Ok, so you know what a carburettor is, great, but don’t go on about it the way Vegans go on about their eating habits.
*Learn to actually LISTEN. For all that the running joke –in the dystopian narrative we live in– is that men don’t listen, the reality is that it is WOMEN that are almost functionally incapable of listening.
The way a male brain generally works is in one of these two ways:
Information comes in —> Gets processed in context —> action or response is taken within that context.
Nagging comes in —> gets identified as nagging —> internally ignores the nagging and ponders life, his bad choices in women, abstract math, and above all: What would a Roman Centurion Do? —> Makes noncommittal noises to pretend some random semblance of listening.
Women get upset and say men don’t listen in the second instance.
Unless you are good at really not listening.
Again, true story, I once had a girlfriend that was really almost a ten in looks and bedroom skills, but her brain was a close representation of tapioca mixed with random electrical discharges and she would start arguments with me for no earthly reason known to man. She once did this over the phone and I really wasn’t in the mood. Instead of my usual response, which would generally be composed of two words and hanging up, I simply put the phone down, far enough I could not hear a word she was saying, but just a squeaky kind of white noise and I proceeded to have my lunch. If the squeaky noise paused I’d grab the phone and go: “Hmmm.” And put it back down. I had a pleasant lunch that took about 30-40 minutes, and when I next heard a pause in the squeaky noise and grabbed the phone, the statement on her side of it was:
“Oh… wow, I am really impressed. this is really the first time you just listened to me without arguing back that none of what I say makes any logical sense. Thank you! Can I come over tonight?”
To which I said “Sure.” And to this day I have no idea what stupid shit she was talking about, but I guarantee you it was stupid shit, because she never brought it up again, not that evening when she came over, nor any other time or during any of the other arguments we had. Now, why is this? I’ll explain, it; has to do with how the female brain works when someone is talking to them, and it is invariably this:
Information comes in—>depending on how attractive/personally invested she is already in the person speaking FOR HER OWN MOTIVES, the ability to actually take in the information as presented and process it in context varies, from an effective almost 0% to a maximum of 80% even if she is madly in love and really trying. Whatever the information is, from a male perspective it would be the equivalent of you receiving truncated messages over radio. The information was: “Would you like a starter? Do you like pasta, like me? or prefer meat?” Depending on her level of personal investment in you this could be received as anything between:
“Would you lik… start…me?” To which she says an enthusiastic YES and expects you to take her to your place, or in the opposite case, throws a drink in your face and accuses you of attempted sexual assault.
AND
“Would [you like] pasta, me [meat]” If she is hungry and likes pasta but not you she will say “pasta.” If she likes you too she may respond “meat” with a meaningful glint in her eye.
The point is women do not hear the objective universe. They crush-grind it and funnel it through whatever emotion, random thought, specific obsession, or other thing in her head either temporarily or semi-permanently, is already lodged in there. And they generally never answer whatever question or topic you are asking them about, but at best a lose interpretation of what they THINK you might have asked.
Which is why engineers, rocket scientists, snipers, mathematicians, and basically anyone where people die if you don’t do detailed shit correctly, is male.
So ladies, despite your seething rage at the above few paragraphs, please understand two three things:
- Men who understand women to a certain level are all aware that by our standards you are generally incoherent, batshit crazy, incongruent to a degree that would get men shot on sight, messy, chaotic, emotional and hormonal. Autists and men with little experience of women do NOT get this anywhere near as well.
- While we understand you think the entirety of creation revolves around your wishes, needs and desires, the inconceivable and horrible reality is that it absolutely does not. It’s even much more worse than that in fact: The Universe doesn’t generally care about you at all, and even if God loves you, reality will still bitchslap you in the face all day long, every day, and continue to do it all your life. It would really be helpful if you learned to understand that:
- Objective reality is COMPLETELY independent from how you feel about any of it
- The more you are able to reason and do logic, the more it improves your life in every way, AND it impresses every man you know in ways you can’t even imagine
3. Truly, you ability to think and react logically and consistently will be like magic unicorns singing rainbows to any man that has had to deal with a few of the average women present in the West today.
Although different to the above, though very much related, always remember that while you generally get to decide who and if they have sex with you, pretty much at will, men get to decide who and if he gets married to them. Pretty much at will. So check your entitlement at the door.
And here is the absolute silver bullet for most men:
DO NOT BREAK HIS BALLS. DRAIN THEM INSTEAD.
Crude? Sure. True? Also real.
A woman who is a genuine help instead of a drag on a man’s already busy life, and who is kind, does not nag, and is genuinely and respectfully attracted to a man and shows it to him regularly, is like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Or to put it in even more crude, but really simple terms in meme format:

And the TL;DR version

Now, if you are an actual Church going, Catholic lady, forgive the crudeness, and bad language, but honestly, I very much doubt a proper Catholic woman really needs any advice on finding a husband. The sad fact is that twe have a complete TSUNAMI, of entitled, thinks-she-is-a-ten (when she is a six at best), bratty, ignorant, spoilt women who assume they deserve the best of everything all the time.
And that’s just not how reality works. Another VERY useful ability, is for you to rate yourself on the traditional 1-10 scale, which is ONLY used for looks. That is your overall face and body. You might not like it, it says nothing about you as a person, but men, simple creatures that we are, pretty much DO rate you this way. And while a man may well have sex with anything right down to a 0, they will generally NOT marry anything 2 points lower than them on the physical attractiveness scale. So select your potential match accordingly. If you are a 7, you’re NOT going to get a 9 who also has money and a decent career. That guy is not having any trouble finding sexual partners and has very little incentive to get married until he finds at least a 9 that is feminine, helpful, intelligent, submissive, sexy and entertaining. And he CAN find that, at his level.
A man will tend to marry maybe one point lower or two, if he is a generic Delta type who is himself either a 6-7 or hasn’t got a lot of self-esteem, and so on, but generally men are looking for something between a point lower than them and two points higher (which is their own delusion in many cases, but far less so than is the female delusions of what they can get married to.)
Anyway, those are the basic pointers and should really be plenty for most women. if there are any specific comments of emails that repeat a particular point, I will address it too.
TMOS Concepts – Part 2 – Reality is Based on Spiritual Underpinnings
If you understood part 1, then you know that the spiritual necessarily comes before the physical, but the physical too, is required. As always: The intro Paragraph:
This is the second in the Theoretical Models of Society series of Posts. Use the category of the same name or the Search Me function on the right-hand sidebar to find all related posts in the series.
It is generally helpful to a reader if they are already familiar with some of my other work, in order for this stuff to have the most useful effect on your life. In particular, The Face on Mars and Believe! would be the top reads to have done to have the generic global perspective of reality well in hand. Systema and Reclaiming the Catholic Church would have the most impact on a more personal level. On health/security/self-protection, and on the reality of Catholicism as it was (and remains with Sedevacantists) before Vatican II and why the Novus Ordo Church is not only not Catholic, but Satanic at its core. I will repeat this little paragraph on each new part, as I think it is important to have a general foundation if one is really interested in more than skim-reading before returning to the general slumber we are all being attempted to be forced into.
If your spiritual cohesion is weak, your physical one will be non-existent. If your spiritual cohesion is based on something real but partial (non-violence, do no harm, meditation on the abstract realities, communion with nature), that is lacking the other side of reality (violence is at times required so you better be good at it, a little harm early sometimes prevent a bigger harm later, practical considerations, dealing with humans as they are not as you wish they were) then our physical cohesion will only last while there are no real stressors to it. MS-13 gangs have it good… until an active government or group of vigilante citizens large and equipped enough decide they had enough. Then MS-13 gangs disappear or become the new government if they win. The Amish are fine… until the MS-13 gangs decide they want the Amish compound.
Only if the spiritual is holistic does the physical become resilient.
You may disagree with it, but like it or not, Islam is holistic. Suicidal zealots on one end and devout prayer on the other end. Because of it, it is resilient. Judaism is complex, because its spiritual aspect reflects both the concept of a higher power, but also the idea that you can circumvent its laws by clever rules-lawyering, and this translates to a physical cohesion that is founded on deception of anyone not part of the club to a great extent. It is resilient and successful… until the deception is understood and seen on a scale that tips the balance, then its exponents tend to get exiled and removed from polite society en masse.
China as an entity is resilient, and its people hard to counter in terms of work ethic or perseverance, but from a spiritual perspective their way of doing things, with mass subjugation to the state, is not sustainable for Western style civilisations. So they are insular and non-integrating. More of a slow rolling behemoth than an instant threat to survival.
Fake religions that only have veneers of ideologies, but are really just the equivalent of a spiritual fake meal and physical cardboard cutout, will have inconsequential physical manifestations beyond the zombie horde. Protestants, Novus Orco “Catholics” the millions and millions of agnostics and atheists, none of them make any difference. At most they are a brainless zombie horde that might be manipulated to stumble this or that way for a brief period of time; and yes, in that time they can make a lot of damage, but they don’t decide anything.
Eastern Orthodox are currently the pre-eminent resistors of clown world, but they tend to be isolationist (which is good but means you as a Westerner are not of them really) and stagnant spiritually. Physically they are solid and generally reliable and they have large enough numbers to make a difference. That said, the failure of their societies is built in: they are essentially tribal. Even the Mongol Empire collapsed when Genghis Khan died. And their own internal stresses prevent them from ever becoming a truly civilising force.
Tiny, low-numbers as it is Catholicism (Sedevacantism) is actually the only perspective that has a real chance. The spiritual element is solid and factual and has no problem pushing back as hard as required, right up to taking on even the fanatical elements of their enemies with calm and determination. Physically this too translates. Their weakness for now is numbers. But given each woman we know that is Sede has (or intends to) at least 5 or more children, we will become a larger force over time.
Pacifist in intent but not afraid to defend as hard as required, also makes us resilient. Building up Sede communities is the aim and process currently happening in real time. Organisation and forming economic communities is the next step. And after that, political and civil defence will come rapidly.
Regardless of if you heed my thoughts on what the best spiritual practice to provide a deep coherence is or not, the fact is that you need to create a physical coherence too. That is, a community of people in the flesh, that can stand united against whatever horror they may have to face, together, as a real community that shares pains and glories as required.
You can have all the best ideas in the world (I have several myself!) but if you don’t learn to create and be a part of a community of men that are willing and able to become warriors on the spot if events require it, you will not survive any SHTF events, nor the more likely constant and progressive squeezing you with taxes, laws, rules and increasing costs for everything.
You need to surround yourself with people that will work well together inside foxholes, instead of panic and crap themselves. And then you need to lead them if you can, and follow the leader if you cannot.
You simply will not achieve anything, no matter what type of “revolution” you might want to have, peaceful, educational, economical, or even outright war, if you do not have something prepared to replace whatever it is you are trying to do away with.
So build it first.
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By G | 16 September 2024 | Posted in Social Commentary, Theoretical Models of Society